The conversation was revealed by Jaejoong during “The Day” Theater Greetings [audio]
Jaejoong: What did we talk on my birthday? We talked about lots of things. I’ve known Junsu for 12 years and Yoochun for nearly 10 years. We always meet a lot of people, as an entertainer and as a co-worker as well. Time passes by and we always go through everything together but we also have our own family, our own life. In our colleagues’ relationship, we are not just members so the thing we are pursuing is respecting, understanding each other more and communicating.
We told each other to spend more time in conversing so that we can understand each other more. Instead of contacting each other twice, let’s contact more frequently. Instead of having a drink and talking with our close friends only, let’s also call the member who is perhaps not working at that time. To be honest, it will be tiring if we know too well what is happening to other members, what he is doing, so sometimes we just don’t contact each other.
We also haven’t sworn at each other so let’s bring some matters up… We talked about that. In the most important moment like now, we have to respect each other more.
Credit: JYJ Daum Telzone
Translated by: SweetieXiah
Shared by: JYJ3
Tagged: Jaejoong, JYJ, JYJ Secret Convo, The Day
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i love you baby !
you have a very warm and caring heart ❤
im proud of your love
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aha~ everybody want to have there own private life ^^
No matter how much you love someone, you need time to be alone once in a while. JYJ are so wise, so young, but of course, they’ve been through a lot. So happy their love and respect for each other is strong.
That’s so true, space is sometimes needed so any relationship can be more understanding and respected. Love how the guys try to keep their frienship!
so… this is the super-secret conversation that jyj had during jj’s birthday? and why they kept this secret until now? it’s not like they were talking about their love life XD
i mean, i was diing of curiosity and in the end it’s not that much XD
btw, i really love the warm relationship those 3 share, and i’m happy that they are trying to improve more their friendship
It’s not that much because he didn’t tell us what they were talking about. 😀
He is such a diplomat (or politician, depending on how you look at it) What he told us was why they were talking so much during that event. Maybe this resolution was part of the conversation, but I’m sure other things were mentioned. 😉
Sometimes we need some space to mantain the relationship close.
It looks like they think a lot about their group dynamics. I can understand that they are maybe afraid, with all the busy individual schedules lately, that they could slowly grow apart. Not because of an conflict or so, just by spending too less time together. They are trying to find a healthy balance. I ´m sure they will succeed.
yes, The boys serious treasure their friendship not easy to get..and ‘”They are trying to find a healthy balance” no mater what happen, and they did success to bring JYJ past through hard time until now and go on..just like miracle!
OMG, Jaejoong really cute and warm caring heart
is why I love him so much
that is a true brotherhood ~
the JYJ Boys become adult men now
so love the way they understand and respect each other..just so sweet! and the other side the boys really lucky to have each other and wonderful friendship..wish I can have friends like them!
yeah, warm brotherhood that’s why i love so much about JYJ too…
I find the whole thing very mature, especially the whole “communication and respect thing.” Gotto love our boys for growing up gracefully. They’ve been through a lot and all these have transformed them from being boys to (good) men. 🙂
sometime they a bit childish but this was A true matured conversation .. I love these brothers^^
when I read the title of this post, I think they talk about love matter.
It maybe sound weird, but I really, trully wanna see they have a date,
JJ, chunnie, su,, i’m waiting u 2 introduce your soulmate. a girl who will complete your life, kekekkekekekkkk
by the way.
long life brotherhood. I hope it will last forever.
till death makes them apart.:)
They probably talked about much more issues, just that the remaining are rather private matters I guess, not suitable to be talked about with fans.
Yes, I hope they will introduce their GFs soon. I ´m sure they were dating since their debut, but always had to be super duper secretive. I can ´t imagine to be under such big pressure the whole time that somebody will reveal her identity and create a “dating scandal”, and such thing could threaten their careers. They should talk about the whole dating issue very often so that the fandom, even the most “crazy” ones like sasaengs, get used to such an idea and don ´t overreact later. I´ve read that when Se7en revealed his longtime girlfriend, 2/3 of his fandom deserted He wasn ´t a newbie at that time, but an established idol, and yet his fangirls could not accept it.
He wasn ´t a newbie at that time, but an established idol,
But he was still an idol, which means that most of his fans weren’t following him because they liked his music, but only for masturbatory material. When their fantasy was disturbed due to the realization that it was just a fantasy, they had no reason to stick around.
This is why I am much more optimistic that JYJ will survive the revelation that they are not awaiting every fan’s pleasure but are actively finding their own. I believe that most JYJ fans are following them because they respect their work and like who they are as people. If there are any fantasies (If? After the “Singles” photo shoot there is no question. 😉 ), the fans seem to be mature enough to know what its proper place is. Or maybe I’ve been mislead by the sanity I see on JYJ3.
“This is why I am much more optimistic that JYJ will survive the revelation that they are not awaiting every fan’s pleasure but are actively finding their own. I believe that most JYJ fans are following them because they respect their work and like who they are as people. If there are any fantasies, the fans seem to be mature enough to know what its proper place is.”
I agree with you. I think JYJ fans have a deep love for these 3 based on who they are, their great talent musically and now as actors and to stand by them in their struggle for freedom and fairness. Of COURSE they want to have a private life and they will find love. It’s ridiculous to believe anything else.
If nothing else comes out of this entire situation with SME, that JYJ become their own men, and no one else’s concept or fantasy, I’ll be thrilled. It must be a very tiring thing to go through life doging into shadows to be private and have relationships. If se7en had to go through that, then he may find himself luckier than he thought. Because from now on, the fans who come to him will be appreciating him for the man he is, who is talented in his chosen field.
I too think this fandom is smart enough to know the difference between real and not real. From now on, they are the captains of their ships, and the masters of their fates. The work they produce and the earnest way they conduct themselves, provides them the opportunity to gain fans who can tell the difference between real and not real.
So JJ, YC, & JS ~~ go for it! This fan wants you to transition from Boys to Men. (pun intended) 😉
Tbh I was first a se7ens fan before dbsk then jyj , and was surprised with his gf he hid for all his debut years till last year. But I was happy for him. And I’m glad he’s gaining back new and old fans with his new fab song. I think it was also because he was gone for almost 4 years that made him lose popularity but he’s always remained in my mind as the singer who introduced me to kpop 🙂
Anyways I always heard and read in interviews, that former dbsk never had time to date, and even if they did, they feel bad for their gf. Which is true. Compared to all the other artists, none did as much moving from schedule to schedule, Japan to Korea as them. I’m thankful now, jyj has more time to finally settle down and meet girls a bit 😉
“Tbh I was first a se7ens fan before dbsk then jyj , and was surprised with his gf he hid for all his debut years till last year. But I was happy for him. And I’m glad he’s gaining back new and old fans with his new fab song. I think it was also because he was gone for almost 4 years that made him lose popularity but he’s always remained in my mind as the singer who introduced me to kpop ”
I agree. I was a Se7en fan before, I’m a Se7en fan now. (Listen to “I’m Going Crazy” on YouTube. It’s vintage Se7en.) I’m impressed that he was brave enough to “come out” as a committed person in a meaningful relationship. How is this bad?? He’s also a wonderful actor, btw, I loved him in GoongS and may yet get around to buying that series. Let’s support Se7en. He’s had a tough time, for no good reason.
They really love each other deeply in heart ! And agree that the most important is to respect each other ……
So I feel so touch when I read this message and know that they will love each other more & more , they grow up so fast to become more mature.
It made me love them more & more also , I will keep it up & support them continuously time by time !!
I love JJ & JYJ ^^
wait…where did jaejoong write/say this?
Every time seeing JYJ together, it’s very easy to feel warmth and loving all around.
I love to see Come on over JYJ and 3hreevices but what I really want to see much more is when JYJ is together not separated life.
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“We also haven’t sworn at each other so let’s bring some matters up… We talked about that”
what does this mean ? someone tell me please >_<
I think he’s talking about never cursing each other out, meaning perhaps avoiding certain topics in order to not cause a fight. At least that is what I think.
As long you guys love and especially respect each other their should not be to many problems within the relationship. Stay tight guys.
Hmmm something I don’t get is, that I thought it is already like this, I mean contacting frequently and going out for drinks, etc.
And this part here…it seams he is telling to contact but than saying that it’s tiring to contact too often:
“Instead of having a drink and talking with our close friends only, let’s also call the member who is perhaps not working at that time. To be honest, it will be tiring if we know too well what is happening to other members, what he is doing, so sometimes we just don’t contact each other.”
But basically I do get the point of wanting to be alone…but I remember that they mentioned all this on twitter and those tweets “sounded” more like they were feeling lonely, especially Joochun & Jaejoong at that time…
Am I wrong?! *confused*
“To be honest, it will be tiring if we know too well what is happening to other members, what he is doing, so sometimes we just don’t contact each other.”
I dunno if I understood this correctly, but I think this is more of their mindset perhaps before that “talk,” and now they are trying to modify it. Instead of updating each other once or twice a day, they should do it more often and more in the quality of communicating, not just the usual “hi” or “hello.”
Perhaps, they were also looking back on how they were before JYJ. I am not really aware on the dynamics of their relationships while they were still TVXQ, but if it was something like as soon as TVXQ moments are done, then they do their own thing and not really mind about other members, then they probably want something different.
If our boys are taking the time to talk about such, then they are really preserving the bond that they have now. They probably know that they cannot afford to have big misunderstandings because of the big impact it would have in everything they have worked hard for. Am sure they know there will be off moments in any relationships, but nothing that cannot be worked out among them.
I won’t be surprised if during that conversation, our boys were talking about deep things regarding trust, respect, love and being able to count on to each other at any time.
I think that these guys are going through what most close siblings go through when they first leave home. You take the relationship for granted when you have this person in your face everyday, so that when the separation first happens it takes a few years to realize that you don’t know who this person is anymore. At least not to the level that you did. That’s when a talk like this usually takes place. (Babies tend to be the main catalyst from what I’ve observed.) I think these guys hit that point faster than most because of the pressure they are under and the reliance that they have on each other professionally.
it will be tiring if we know too well what is happening to other members, what he is doing
I think this comment is to remind that fans that they are not married. They don’t need to know what the others are doing every minute of the day.
All I really have to say about it is that they continue to impress me.
I think he meant that it’s tiring to be around each other 24/7. To know each others every move is tiring and can cause problems (cause we all know if you be around each other too much you can get on each other nerves and major issues can come from small things). But at the same time, they should keep in contact with each other. So basically what he’s saying is trying to keep a balance. You don’t have to spend all your time together or know what the other is doing at all times, but at the same time, do try to keep some contact with the members and not just a quick hi or a little text message.
hmmm..correct me if im wrong..but frm my understanding what they want to improve is ‘communication’
in every relationship..either family,friendships or love..all needs ‘communications’ to ‘understanding-each-others’..
everyone do need their own space..still…as we can see..they r not leaving in the same dome like they did during tvxq day..so ‘instead-of-having-a-drink-and-talking-with-‘close-friends’…perhaps all they need is ‘contacting’ the others more offten and ‘talk’ about ‘non-jyj/working-matters’, even it will be tiring
*sorry..hope u guys can understand my poor grammar :)*
Thank you for answering ^^
You know, I was mainly confused because of this –> “Instead of having a drink and talking with our close friends only, let’s also call the member”…you see, close friends and then member, which means these are two different things, when you say it like this. But I guess it’s me ^_~ as I’ve said, I was just confused… (^_^)/
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Thank you guys for telling me your thoughts and impressions ^^
I understand, you are right…it’s still a difference to talk about thoughts, emotions and what’s going on, than just updating one another and I guess that
is right with the comparison of siblings who move out…it’s not the same and I guess that’s the point. I have to admit that I thought that’s sad that they don’t live together anymore, especially for Jaejoong, but ok, it’s just a guessing, I don’t know them, so ^^
*nodding* I sure understand this point, since I’m like that ^^
Thank you again everyone (^_^)/
I love the way they keep their friendship,they give each other space & respect but not to grow apart by individual activities,they are trying to make a plan to keep their relationship healthy.I hope u succeed in keeping your relationship healthy,above all the crazy things going on with u 3.U 3 are lucky because u have each other.
wahhhhh my only wish is ti see them togather for ever & ever…..
we know what boys talk about when they are together… lots of stuff.. practically everything…
just the same as our “girl talk”..
so lets not guess anymore lol…
at the end of the day.. they are still boys… tend to be very secretive…. they can’t reveal everything to fangirls
I have so much respect and love for JYJ as a whole. I truly wish for them that regardless what they do or become in life in the future that they will always stay together and be very close loving friends.
It seems Jae did a very good job of ‘communicating’ to fans about their ‘talk’ 😀 At least, here at JYJ3, everyone seems to understand~Communication, Respect, balance= Love<3 JYJ!!!
Before they can be JYJ, each has his own life to live, each has his own dream whether personal or as a group, and each has his unique charm, then if the three of them can meet at a certain point, then it’s beautiful. I really admire how matured they approach their lives individually and as JYJ. I believe that the more each of them is given a chance to grow as Kim Jaejoong, as Park Yoochun and as Kim Junsu, the stronger JYJ will be. A personal recognition is different from a group recognition, and as a person matures he needs a name of his own rather than just living in the shadow of a group. And if one attains self recognition and self fulfillment, only then can he be an effective and a happy group member.
Yes I agree: “To be honest, it will be tiring if we know too well what is happening to other members, what he is doing,” , it’s suffocating even with siblings or even couples to know everything, to have someone acts as a shadow on your back. It’s good they are aware and discussing things like this. They really are grown men already.
Their talk is so deep for their age..probably cos they’ve been through so so much 😦 ..someone like me need to read it a few more times yet still don’t quite get the meaning of the conversation but nevermind…haha. They’re not blood related but their relationship are beyond that. I guess their love for each other grow deeper..and my love for them will keep growing too ♥
@kris i agree with the part ‘grow as kim, park and kim’
What i mean is, i’m glad they rarely use the ‘hero, micky, xiah’ to address or introduce themselves..dun get me wrong, i know junsu still use xiah as his twitter name n else, but i notice when they introduce ‘jyj’ they always say their real name..
I believe they dont forget their stage name nor dont care bout it anymore, but introducing urself as real you, i believe, can give u more confidence as who you are, and that’s where u can start to grow and more mature..
Awwww discussing personal issues with each other like real brothers~ my siblings and I do that a lot too and they’re my best friends. Friendships sometimes fall apart, but I hope and pray JYJ’s friendship will last forever. I know they mean a lot to each other, and I don’t want to see them hurt.