[TRANS] Attacker and defender. Speaker and listener. Doers and sufferers.
It does not matter.
If there is a conflict because of misleading and contradictory words and actions..
Whether it’s too much or not, it depends on the person’s criteria.
[TRANS] Listen and experience as much as possible.
Others’ curiosity about you can be triggered and then you can do forms of encouragement for them..
What is important is that you have created your own big weapon.
[TRANS] Same freedom.
More than your freedom to express.
You might deprive yourself of the freedom to listen to everything around you..
Depending on your level of awareness, you can become the center of this world, or create an empty ego that even you can’t control…
Source: @bornfreeonekiss
Translated by: Ruby(@rubypurple_fan) of JYJ3
Shared by: JYJ3
KIm Jaejoong, YOU never cease to amaze us! You are truly awesome!
i don’t understand 😦
Wow that is some deep stuff Jaejoong. It is also great advice. I hope your day is a good one. Fighting!
JJ as usual and very straight forward meaning hopefully taken to heart so young but very wise in your renderings may these were penetrate both brain and marrow to eek past the heart and soul to end the tragedy of endless voices with no words to maybe allowing it to render oneself useful or useless.
meant may these words penetrate
very good advice and lessons of life. are these from you personal learnings JJ or something that you read/heard that made a bit impression on you? thank you for sharing.
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Is he talking about personal code of ethics? His tweet may have a hundred of interpretations and I’m always amazed how he goes on deep thinking and talk about human behavior these days, is he studying Psychology aside from Communication?
Yes, in life it all depends on individual parameters on how to define the following.personal code of ethics.
* To be honest- the more honest you are, the more trustworthy you become.
* Have integrity- the better of a person you are, the better an image you present.
* Be responsible- you must be responsible in life so that others can rely on you.
* Tell the truth- the value of truth is immeasurable, because without it, the world would just be filled with lies.
* Give credit where credit is due- without crediting people for their ideas/works, it is considered stealing and we are cheating them of their hard work.
* Be courteous- every act of kindness makes a difference in the life of someone.
* Have respect- one of the most important things is to treat other as you wish to be treated.
* Trust- trust is the building block of relationships we create in our lives.
* Be harmonious- to live together and get along with everyone is a “delicacy” that we all long for.
* Don’t change who you are to please others- it’s not worth becoming a completely different person simply to make other people happy because by doing so, you may be making yourself unhappy.
@kris love your statement, very wise and smart words!!!
@Flower
Thank you, actually that’s from my notes from one of the school parents’ seminar I attended 🙂
Wow..very well said!! ^^♥
Jaejoong, hope you drop by here at JYJ3 sometimes, as a noona fan of yours, I want to share this to you 🙂
“Anyway”
People are often unreasonable and self-centered.
Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives.
Be kind anyway.
If you are honest, people may cheat you.
Be honest anyway.
If you find happiness, people may be jealous.
Be happy anyway.
The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow.
Do good anyway.
Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough.
Give your best anyway.
For you see, in the end it is between you and God.
It never was between you and them anyway.
Mother Teresa
Author: Mother Teresa
Another version from Martina McBride
beautiful verse…thank you for sharing!
Kris love this quote by her and thanks for posting..
kris,
I love what you share. “anyway” is such a positive way to experience life. I think Jaejoong is this type, he looks with positive frame and tries to understand the otherwise thinking, sometimes it seems he takes to heart, that which he can’t comprehend and shares, he carries such sorrow but is growing towards release (reading, writing, composing, sharing thoughts), his depth for his age is truly touching, his growth so beautiful to observe. We all slip in negative once in a while and to bring the positive to light I thank you for reminding us, for always caring enough to share positive thinking, like jj.
@kris
I believe in those from you mentioned values/morals ~ signed!
You know Kris, I always like reading your comments, it always deep and comprehensive and not the usual ‘OMG Jaejoongie is sooo deep’
I was thinking along those lines too but i also think that Jaejoong is somehow refering the to the recent twitter scandal with ‘S’
Its like he is tryign to tell us to believe what we will. Sometimes whats right in front of us is not the truth and sometimes we just have to blindly believe. I dont know why I’m thinking like this.
Jaejoong has always been a little mysterious. He may be the social butterfly but i see him to be a little lonely. When left alone, he waould be smothered in self misery and depression and thats why im always happy to see photos of him with someone, anyone for that matter as long as they love him and appreciate him. I dont think an angel per say…just a little misunderstood. I think the situation is getting to him and he is finally cracking…not that i mind…i want him to say it out loud and clear for all to hear.
@shivyn
Thank you 🙂
My professor once said, if you’re ask to give a reaction/reflection paper or just a statement for a certain topic, don’t be afraid to voice what’s in your mind because there’s no right or wrong answer because that’s what pops up in your mind (but of course we can’t do that here if it’s something offensive). That’s what I like in Jae’s tweets (aside from handsome and sexy selca 🙂 ) he’s inviting us to think and reflect and even relate to our personal lives. I don’t think he’s in deep self misery and depression, maybe a little. What I see is his ability to express himself openly and honestly while also reflecting a genuine concern for others. It is about having the confidence to be himself, to be true to his values and beliefs, and to be courageous enough to speak up when needed.
How I wish I could attend a seminar where he is the speaker 🙂 (He gets a lot of potentials, to be a lecturer can be added to his resume.)
kris,
“What I see is his ability to express himself openly and honestly while also reflecting a genuine concern for others. It is about having the confidence to be himself, to be true to his values and beliefs, and to be courageous enough to speak up when needed.”
This is perfect, you said it very well, I also believe our Jaejoong is exactly as you describe here.
@Flowe, @Losa, @jade, @greyfox, @makiforjyj, @shivyn
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Hmm….I wonder if his thoughts have anything to do with the recent situation of that ‘cashboxman’ guy, since that ‘strange uncle’ keeps expressing himself freely in spreading rumours and there are people who actually listen and follow him.
Really? There are indeed ppl who believe what he’s posting?? WOW! #nowords
Jaejoong is so transparent and he mostly express his thoughts. Such a great man upon his emotions and thinking. No matter what, I’ll keep on supporting him and the whole JYJ. AKTF!!! You’ll get through all this. We believe in you.
aa jaejoong nuju resep ngaos bukunya …mending ameungan sareng aa chunnie …..:-P
Wise words,jaejoong Oppa!! ^^♥
special thoughts….a lot of meenings….you are such a deep thinker….thank you….all the best…
I am not sure what JJ is trying to say but I love the way he thinks so deep.
JJ was still a child when he started working and looking after himself so that he is a lot more mature than others of his age. What is most remarkable about him, though, is that instead of becoming bitter and cynical, as most people in a similar situation would do, he has worked hard to improve himself in every respect and has succeeded. And now, with his generous and loving heart, he is sharing his life lessons with us to protect others who may be beaten down by life.
I would like to share with you an uplifting story I read this morning which, I think, is very similar to JYJ’s story and what happened to them after they left SM:
One day a farmer’s donkey fell down into a well. The animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do. Finally, he decided the animal was old, and the well needed to be covered up anyway; it just wasn’t worth it to retrieve the donkey. He invited all his neighbors to come over and help him. They all grabbed a shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well.
At first, the donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly. Then, to everyone’s amazement he quieted down. A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well. He was astonished at what he saw. With each shovel of dirt that hit his back, the donkey was doing something amazing. He would shake it off and take a step up.
As the farmer’s neighbors continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up. Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and happily trotted off!
MORAL :
Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt. The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off and take a step up. Each of our troubles is a steppingstone. We can get out of the deepest wells just by not stopping, never giving up! Shake it off and take a step up.
Remember the five simple rules to being happy:
1. Free your heart from hatred – Forgive. (JJ has done that, have we?)
2. Free your mind from worries. (I am not sure if we have done that, we still do?)
3. Live simply and appreciate what you have. (JJ has done it, do we?)
4. Give more. (JJ has done, do we?)
5. Expect less from people but more from yourself. (JJ has done, have we?)
Thank you JJ for shaking off the dirt and stepping out of the well, for giving us so much joy with your music and for caring so much, for being you.
Thank you for sharing the donkey story, yes you’re right, we can relate the story to JYJ’s plight.especially to Jaejoong. He is always subjected to controversy and defamation, but he just shaken them off and continue cultivate himself to show the better or even best side of him.
Thanks Kris. I also like your comments. They are always sensible and you understand the deeper meaning of his thoughts.
Hi Anna I really find your sharing meaningful. It’s positive and encouraging to a lot who may be down and do not see hope ahead. Would you mind if I re-post your sharing on my personal blog? I am a new blogger n counselor 🙂
looking forward to your reply 🙂
Thanks, Tiffany. I am glad you liked my story. You are most welcome to share it. I am also new here.
anna-liza I have not heard this in a while thank you for posting as the story speaks for itself…
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i really love his wise quotes…….if i am not mistaken he ever said that he learn about a lot of things through interaction with people than a book so i am not surprise if he can see/read through other people like a book
I don’t understand anything. Jaejoong, marry me and spend the rest of your life interpreting your words to me personally, cause I swear, without verbal statement and examples, I’m in the dark really….
/gets bricked/ I’m an opportunist, so what 😀
Awesome JYJ fans … thank you for sharing your thoughts in response to Jaejoong’s thought provoking tweets!
@kris Thanks for sharing your notes and vid
To my Jaejoongie ….. you make me think, think …… a lot today
oppa fighting ^^^
Everytime I read Jaejoong deep thoughts tweet,I’m happy.It looks like Jaejoong is strong enough now to face the tough world he is in.
Applause
Know thyself
and honor who you are
Nothing is separate…it is all in how you receive it and your level of consciousness. No separations only the ones created by our senses, emotions and our experiences…which is all in our power to control. If you have an open mind and a clear heart. Create the world you love and live in……your own heaven or hell….plain and simple.
well, i have nothing to say. i just want to say thank you for those who has shared his/her thought n experience. i’ve learned a lot about life n human behavior not only from jeje tweets but also from jyj fans. i find a lot of awesome people in jyj3.net 😀
btw, don’t forget to watch MBC documentary “the zoo is alive 2” these monday at 11:20 p.m KST (honestly i’m not sure about the time? it’ll be aired at 11:20 p.m KST or 11:15 p.m KST? ^^;;) let’s make”the zoo is alive 2″has a box office movie’s rating 😀
Everytime he wrote something deeply imma bit lost but luckily everyones in here always make it clear for me and some words above totally inspired me a lots..
I’m glad Jaejoong is so thoughtful….. he always seems so down to earth unlike some celebrities.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts Jaejoong 😀