[TRANS] Park Chanho sunbaenim, who I met for the first time in 8 years, sent me a book. There are lots of great quotes. “How you finish is more important than how you begin”.
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T/N: Book name: “There must be endings for beginnings to exist too” by Park Chanho
Source: @bornfreeonekiss
Translated by: @ohmyjunsu
Shared by: JYJ3
JYJ3 
sounds like a great pickmeup book! please share the best quotes with us when you read them 🙂
How true this is Jaejoong, how true. 😉
Yes, finish it with a style. People won’t remember much how u begin ur school, career, marriage, etc. But they will always remember the way u end it.
Even though I feel your pain and will understand if you want to end soon but I will still secretly wish that you won’t end it so soon. Always walking with you, no matter how tough the path is.
Wow good to know you are being encouraged by new and old friends please read excerpts from the book to encourage us as well. Look forward to a post when possible of what touches your heart.. Lets all grow strong together…. Your future is bright even when days are dreary and no sunlight is peeping thru the inner you shines to all near and far that is a condition of a honest heart.
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Read slowy,you will know it better than .Great^_^
Thank you Jaejoong for letting us know what’s going on with you.
In my stars I am above thee; but be not afraid of greatness: some are born great, some achieve greatness, and some have greatness thrust upon ’em~*
you have now had your Shakespeare moment…….continue forward~*
Ok …* walking out *
O_O…… too advanced for ya??
I can always recite a simplier quote, Meme
“Keep Smurfin” 🙂
You gon learn today
Ok, is that “moon walking” out? LOL
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I hate the the smurfs …even as a child …I hated them !
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yep ….best way out of anywhere .
@Meme
Well smurfit and those smurfin smurfs
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Ok …* walking out *
Jaejoong you are the most sweet guy i have ever met ^_^ You always tweet when your fans need you ❤
He loves us so much and is so thoughtful and kind. I’m so proud of him.
Keep your chin up, dearest one. These are strange days indeed. Stay strong. We love you and we’re not going anywhere.
Jaejoong:
“Self-esteem means knowing you are the dream.”
Oprah Winfrey
Keep your head up and remember to keep your eyes on the prize.
Yeah…..great for you to tweet such quotes,very wise words indeed. Thank you for always being with us, sending us strength and inspiration.
Since some people are too focused on the beginning and refused to see and acknowledge black and white details along the way, too afraid to think of an ending point, but what if the brightest part is in the ending?
And an ending of every story or every journey or every quest means a beginning of a new one, a potentially better than the previous, if not then one can always end and begin, end and begin…life always goes on searching for a new beginning.
Take care Jaejoongie, we are always with you.
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life is given to us like a plat piece of land and everything has to be done.. lets hope when we are finished, our piece of land will be a beatiful garden.. 😉
ahh~ it’s like what you said ” it’s ok to fail or succeed. don’t get frustrated and don’t be arrogant. if i will be smilling before using all the breaths that i’m inhaling right now, at that time lets die arrogantly^^ because we live a successful life!! “
@bornfreeonekiss,
“You don’t drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.”
“If you want to fly, you have to give up the things that weigh you down.”
“Approach the start of each day with one goal and end the day with one word: DONE!”
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Jaejoong’s 2nd tweet : ““There must be endings for beginnings to exist too” by Park Chanho
JJ, let me share this to you and to my sisters here.( sharing is loving :), we don’t have much news to read anyway :))
9 Rules for Turning Endings into New Beginnings
POST WRITTEN BY: MARC CHERNOFF
Every new beginning comes from some other beginning’s end.
When you can no longer think of a reason to continue, you must think of a reason to start over. There’s a big difference between giving up and starting over in the right direction. And there are three little words that can release you from your past regrets and guide you forward to a positive new beginning. These words are: “From now on…”
So, from now on…
1. Let the things you can’t control, GO. – Most things are only a part of your life because you keep thinking about them. Positive things happen in your life when you emotionally distance yourself from the negative things. So stop holding on to what hurts, and make room for what feels right. Do not let what is out of your control interfere with all the things you can control.
2., Accept and embrace reality. – Life is simple. Everything happens for you, not to you. Everything happens at exactly the right moment, neither too soon nor too late. For everything you lose, you gain something else; and for everything you gain, you lose something else. You don’t have to like it, but it’s just easier if you do. So pay attention to your outlook on life. You can either regret or rejoice; it’s your choice.
3. Change your mind.– Change is like breath – it isn’t part of the process, it is the process. In reality the only thing we can count on is change. And the first step toward positive change is to change your outlook. Prepare for the positive. Prepare for the new. Allow the unknown to take you to fresh and unforeseen areas in yourself. Growth is impossible without change. If you cannot change your mind, you cannot change anything in your life. Sometimes all you need to do is look at things from a different perspective.
4. Hold tight to the good things. – When life’s struggles knock you into a pit so deep you can’t see anything but darkness, don’t waste valuable energy trying to dig your way out. Because if you hastily dig in the dark, you’re likely to head in the wrong direction and only dig the pit deeper. Instead, use what energy you have to reach out and pull something good in with you. For goodness is bright; its radiance will show you which way is up, and illuminate the correct path that will take you there.
5. Rest and regroup. – Strength isn’t about bearing a cross of grief or shame. Strength is about choosing your path, living with the consequences, and learning from them. Sometimes you do your best and end up with a mess. When this happens, don’t be discouraged. You tried. That’s really all you can ever do. You have not failed; you just learned what not to do. So rest, regroup, and begin again with what you now know.
6. Take chances. – Making a big life change or trying something new can be scary. But do you know what’s even scarier? Regret. So realize that most of your fears are much bigger in your mind than they are in reality; you’ll see this for yourself as soon as you face them. Don’t let them stop you. Live your life so that you never have to regret the chances you never took, the love you never let in, and the gifts you never gave out.
7. Keep climbing. – Every person who is at the top of the mountain did not fall there from the sky. Good things come to those who work for them. You gain confidence and grow stronger by every experience in which you truly push yourself to do something you didn’t think you could do. If you are standing in that place of in-between, unable or unwilling to go backwards, but too afraid to move forward, remember that you can’t enjoy the view without being willing to climb.
8. Appreciate what you have learned.– Nothing is more beautiful and powerful than a smile that has struggled through the tears. Don’t regret your time, even the moments that were filled with hurt. Smile because you learned from it and gained the strength to rise above it. In the end, it’s not what you have been through that defines who you are; it’s how you got through it that has made you the person you are today, and the person you are capable of being tomorrow.
9. Realize every step is necessary. – Nothing is ever wrong. We learn from every step we take. Whatever you did today was a necessary step to get to tomorrow. So be proud of yourself. Maybe you are not as good as you want to be, or as great as you one day will be; but thanks to all the lessons you’ve learned along the way, you are so much better than you used to be.
Thanks for reading 🙂
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This is awesome kris, thanks for sharing. Positive thinking is always a plus.
🙂
hello jj, thank you for always caring enough to share.
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Thank you 🙂 Inspired by JJ’s 2 tweets talking about endings/beginnings…
hehe kris, I too used that beginning.. ending.. line in OPD just now on a comment. Jaejoong, instigator of good thoughts…
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I have a favor to ask from you, let me share your comment in ODP, my friends in twitter and FB will be happy to read our thoughts in your comment.
yes of course kris, I am happy to share, thank you for reaching more people to spread good thoughts for jj/jyj. I appreciate you 🙂
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First the moments, then the hours . . . then 8 years have passed, and a lifetime. Perhaps the finish is important because it is the culmination of the moments and the hours of effort that have supported one’s decisions to an end, whereas the beginnings often involve no choice.