Love… Love… Love…
Friends of the same sex, friends of the opposite sex. How do JYJ members understand this? Is it possible for a female friend to become someone that you are in love with?
Junsu was the first to speak: “My answer is very clear. 100% not possible. From the female point of view, it may be possible, but from the male point of view, it is definitely not possible! A female friend who grew closer as a platonic friend, it is not possible for her become a girlfriend.
Yuchun agreed with this opinion of “not becoming confused between love and friendship”.
Jaejoong said, “I think it is not possible.”
Why do you say this?
“Because I have never wavered between love and friendship.”
Then how about love that is between a friendship? You and a friend like the same woman at the same time, or have one-sided love for a friend’s girlfriend, anyone may have at least one such experience, the feeling may have faded or is still lingering in the heart. Just like Lee Seung Chul singing ‘In Love With A Friend’s Girlfriend’, or Kim Gun Mo expressing his regret about a ‘Wrongful Encounter’, and also Hong Kyung Min singing about a ‘Wavering Friendship’ directed at a particular love relationship.
JYJ members’ expressions became serious.
Yuchun and Junsu said resolutely, “No way.” If no longer in touch with that friend, check the situation beforehand to understand it carefully. To prevent any unhappiness, verify it personally. Junsu said, “If it is a friend’s girlfriend, then right from the start, we will not have that kind of thought.”
Junsu also said, “Developing from platonic friends to being in love, it is a bit like a novel or a drama. I also have such a song in my album. A man and woman who were friends from youth started to fall in love with each other, like a fantasy. Because it is unlikely to happen in real life, I think.” Junsu again replies in the negative.
Jaejoong, emphasising the premise that this kind of thing should not happen, quietly revealed his own experience: “When we first met, I did not know. We started to like each other and wanted to start dating, then I realised she was someone that my friend dated. I immediately gave it up.” As he said this, he had a look like he tasted some suffering.
All 3 are the same. Compared to love, they place much more importance on friendship, these 3 young men of 20-plus years.
Picture Credit: DC JYJ Gall
Trans from Jap-Chin: 119
Trans from Chin-Eng: Christie
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